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Movie Reviews

As you know, Enchanting Sunshine doesn’t actually review movies in the usual sense of the word, I leave that to the real critics.

Gone Baby Gone–When a four year old goes missing, her distraught aunt contacts a team of private investigators to find her. The PIs, a couple, working with police, uncover clues and a motive for the little girl’s disappearance. That’s all I’ll say so as not to spoil the plot.

I think about the movie almost every day since I’ve seen it (two weeks ago now). One of the characters is confronted with a decision at the end of the movie. I still don’t know which decision is right or would be the one I would choose. I would love to hear your thoughts after you see the movie. What decision would you make and why?

CTT: 4 thumbs (extra quarter of thumb for making me think)

Rendition–Isabella Fields El-Ibrahimi goes to the airport to pick up her husband Anwar after his business trip to South Africa. When he never arrives, she starts asking questions, especially once she obtains irrefutable proof that he boarded the plane. Meanwhile, the US government, suspecting Anwar of being affiliated with a terrorist organization, attempts to extract information from him about his contacts. The film makes no effort to disguise the comparisons between the fictional prison camp and Guantanamo Bay. I’d love to hear your thoughts on the movie and the topic in general.

CTT: 3.1

There was another movie, but my memory is a sieve so I can’t remember it at the moment.

Stalked by the Company

I’m being harassed by my company. They’re not intending to harass me, mind you, I just happen to be a the unfortunate victim of my husband’s bright mind. (All good things come with a trade-off.)

Last night, I was having a rare, blissful night of deep sleep. Apparently, my snoring and dreaming was displeasing in the sight of the Sleep Gods. I was jolted out of a dream by a very loud ringing sound coming from the general area of the phone. When I looked at the clock, it was 3:24. I picked up the phone, not knowing what to expect, and managed to utter something not quite resembling a greeting but considerably friendlier than what I wanted to say. The voice on the other end was cheery, bright, and asked to speak to my husband, who seems to be the only intelligent employee who understands one of our systems. The third party support team who should understand it, and is paid to understand it, sure as hell doesn’t. So they call on Friday nights, and at 3:24 in the morning, and even again this evening for two hours.

The kicker is that the “problem” the “support team” needed help with is the very same one my husband troubleshooted with them a week ago, so should have known how to fix.

I’m not complaining that my husband doesn’t get overtime or any sort of extra compensation for the off-hours help. I would just prefer it if the “support team” scheduled their 3 am calls around my insomnial nights. Is that so much to ask?

As I wander off to bed, I wonder if I will again find myself answering the phone tonight at some unspeakable hour, involuntarily muttering, “I can’t believe it” as I pass the phone over to my husband.

What are the rules around restraining orders?

Finances

It’s Spring. Time to clean the house and purge all those unwanted things taking up room that are no longer adding joy to our lives. Perhaps one of those things can be credit card debt.

PBS re-aired a 2004 Frontline about the credit card industry. I had seen it before but forgotten many of the awful things about lack of consumer protections. I’m not saying that we’re not responsible for our actions, but I certainly don’t think the purpose of our government is to serve the interests of business over consumers. I’ll stop there before I get myself upset and get my blood pressure up. It’s bed time and I can’t afford another night without sleep.

Here’s the episode, which I recommend watching. Frontline is also doing an episode on “Can You Afford to Retire.” I’m not sure if I want to watch that one.

If this gets you interested in learning more about your finances, one of the best resources for advice is Suze Orman. She has a really interesting show weekly on CNBC and many informative and comprehensive books.

Here’s a Suze Orman test. If you have a lot of credit card debt, should you take out a home equity loan at a lower interest rate to pay off your credit cards? Suze says no. Credit card debt is unsecured, but of course, your home loan is secured. This is just one of the many things you can learn from Suze. Plus she’s feisty and scrappy and fun to watch.

Hope that information is useful to you.

Reader Takes Hint

I have to brag for a minute. I don’t know how it happened with the copious amounts of mindless dribble that emanates from this IP address, but somehow I ended up with an exceptionally astute and bright audience.

You know how to take a hint and act on it! I laud you summa-la-ly.

Last night was one of those nights when my hateful brain decided that 3 am was my final hour of sleep. By a little after six I was in the office staring blankly at my computer monitor, hoping for at least a couple of synapses to fire. By eleven, I had realized the impossibility of that goal and had succumbed utterly to my fog, concentrating nearly exclusively on keeping my eyes open and my head erect. Then I got a call from the receptionist, “You have something here.” After my heart stopped racing from the startling jolt of the phone, I went to retrieve my “something.” It turned out to be a dozen, beautiful, red roses, each one perfect.

Thank you wonderful gift giver!!

When a lady receives flowers at the office, it generates a lot of interest, but when that lady’s husband works in the same office and knows he wasn’t the one who sent the flowers, it makes for an interesting, eyebrow-arching, squinty-eyed husband. It’s particularly interesting when said husband searches memory for potentially forgotten occassion and then attempts to scratch out the sender’s name on the attached note and write in his own when Enchanting Sunshine closes her sleepy little eyes for just a minute.

Keep the flowers coming, and once again, if you send me the deed to a house in Cinque Terre or Lake Como, I won’t complain.

Enchanting Sunshine apologizes for the incoherent nature of this or any other entry due to extreme sleep deprivation and general lack of brilliance or imagination. Reader assumes all risk in suffering or boredom resulting from any clickage within the Enchanting Sunshine domain. If reader wishes to send money and stop complaining, perhaps content of higher quality can be generated, but reader was warned after all and should set expectations lower and more within the realm of, well, realism. If you wish to pursue legal action against Enchanting Sunshine or any of its subsidiaries, claims should be submitted to Hawk, the Fact Checker, aka HFC, whose DC roots and part Italian heritage will ensure that it will be the last claim you ever submit.

Basketball in the South

Was it only a couple of months ago that I wrote an entry starting with, “Who cares about basketball anyway?”

Growing up in Baltimore, the Orioles were the center of my sports world. There were the Blast and Skipjack games. A few boxing matches with Sugar Ray Leonard. The Poly/City and Calvert Hall/Loyola games were pretty important. But baseball, baseball was the only thing that really mattered. (I won’t mention the sport that I never got a real chance to like before an untimely midnight exit.)

When I moved to Charlotte, I had my first taste of professional basketball. The Hornets were here back then and they were good. Maybe I was living under a rock, but it was also the first time I saw or experienced the enthusiasm over college basketball and the NCAA. “It’s just college teams. What’s the big deal?” I wondered (the same question I still ask regarding college football and the “Bowls”). Nevertheless, college basketball is a big deal here, and when UNC (aka “Carolina”) or Duke is playing, good luck trying to move in any of the sports bars.

This year the CIAA and a couple of NCAA games (to the tune of $200) are being played in Charlotte, eliciting the expected excitement from an already enthusiastic following (how’s that for alliteration). Saturday, we had severe storms, including tornado warnings. As their intensity was known from the considerable damage already done in Atlanta and South Carolina, the televised game was interrupted by the local station to warn viewers about the impending danger and provide safety tips. Just to prove the point about the severity of the storm, here’s a picture that a friend of mine took of the hail in Atlanta.

Hail in Atlanta

If you want to rile a television audience here, and really raise their ire, interrupt their basketball game. The local newscasters had to interrupt their own broadcast to ask viewers to please stop calling the station complaining about the storm coverage. “This is a serious storm and our first duty is public safety,” they admonished callers. Unpersuaded, viewers continued to call until the local news gave up and returned to the basketball broadcast feed.

For the first time ever, I get it. To use a Vick analogy, this year I have a dog in the fight. My friend Mindpinball shared this story that explains why, this Friday, at 2 pm, if there’s a storm, there better just be a ticker across the bottom of the screen. It will also be the first time another team will have priority over the Orioles.

It’s a nice treat to not be bored by the endless basketball coverage. At least until the Retrievers are knocked out, which will probably be around 4 pm on Friday.

Short-lived glory is better than none at all.

Go Retrievers

Go!!

Go Retrievers, GO!!!

Internet Gratitude

It’s been a while since I had an episode of “That’s Love” or “We’re All Going to Die!” so I’ll work on some “We’re All Going to Die!” news and let this post serve for the former.

I love the Internet. I can’t imagine now how I ever lived without it. How did I book travel arrangements? How did I figure out where a restaurant was? How did I stay in touch with friends (oh, right, I spent hours running up phone bills). In addition to the already wonderful things I love about life post-Internet, in the last year, I’ve added one more thing I love, blogs!

Maybe I’m just high on all the recent good news I’ve had, but when I read the posts of other bloggers, I see more than just a blog entry, I see an act of love. That’s right, you heard me, Buddy.

There are the dedicated Orioles blogs that compile sometimes lengthy and detailed facts and analyses about the Orioles that make it easy for me to stay informed. Sometimes I read the posts and there’s so much information I can’t even digest it all and I think to myself, “that must have been a lot of work to put together!”

There are the “stay in touch” sort of blogs that are meant to share daily news with distant loved ones.

There are the daily thoughts kind of blogs, that introduce readers to ideas or news, or share a small view into someone else’s world and what excites, frustrates, or interests them.

All of these blogs have something in common. They are an act of love in their creation. They give us a chance to share a connection, they provide information, they are a sacrifice of time and effort, and they provide a window into someone else’s soul, a chance to see the world through someone else’s eyes and experience a tiny piece of what they feel. These blogs, your blogs (listed over there on the left), to me, reveal a kindness.

Sometimes I struggle with the etiquette of comments. I want to post every day, “Great entry! Thanks for putting it together!” so that other bloggers know that their posts aren’t going unappreciated out into the ether, but I think I’d be a pest then and maybe served with restraining orders (and I’m trying to avoid that after the Cal incident (I’m kidding!)). So instead of commenting, I quietly navigate back to my starting page and think all the good thoughts to myself. I wonder questions to myself like “what’s Mindpinball up to-has he gone to see any games yet?” or “how does this Orioles blogger keep up with all these players?” or “why isn’t the dude with the wastebasket making any confessions lately?”

Again, maybe I’m just drunk on goodness (I swear I haven’t been to a California vending machine), but I wanted to thank all my favorite bloggers, if you happen to read this, for sharing a little part of yourselves and let you know how much I look forward to reading your posts every day.

May your Saturday be filled with love, soul enveloping happiness, plentiful affirmations about all you offer to this world, and something interesting to tickle your brain.

Spring Days

The weather here today is GORGEOUS! I’m working from home and when I let the cat outside, I realized that I have no choice but to resign. How can I be expected to continue working when there are trails that need to be hiked in this beautiful weather?

The streets of my subdivision are lined with Bradford Pears and their white blossoms have just popped out in beautiful synchrony. It’s my favorite thing about Spring how all of nature seems to be having a silent conversation, working together to bring joy to us after the cold and lifeless winter.

It’s so gorgeous here in fact, that it distracted me from Spring Training. I just looked at the clock and noticed the game started forty minutes ago without my watchful eye on the box. Gotta go. Os winning…

Hope your Spring day is just as beautiful and joyful!

PBS/Nova

When we win the Lotto, I’m giving half our money to PBS. Nova did a fabulous program on “Ape Genius.” The episode is available online if you want to watch. I highly recommend it.

The program also gave me another clue towards solving world peace. I’ll let you figure out what it was (that way maybe you’ll watch - you won’t regret it!). :-)

Sounds in Our House

As I type this sentence, my husband is in the kitchen mumbling to himself. Actually he’s talking to the moths, saying things like “Where did you come from?” Then I hear the sound of his hands clapping as he attempts to administer death to one of many thousands of moths that continue to plague us from an unknown source. Next, there are the sounds of the contents of Tupperware swishing about against each other inside their protective container as they are moved in and out of cabinets while my husband peers determinedly inside looking for another nest, or whatever you call moth breeding grounds.

A couple of weeks ago, I found a bag of pistachios full of their sickening web-like strands. How could I blame them for that. Who doesn’t like pistachios. But in that moment, I naively thought that I had found victory over these creatures we cannot seem to eradicate.

Yet, they continue to multiply and we’re helpless against them. Helpless.

If you were a moth on the wall, or ceiling, in our home, as the case may be, instead of hearing the sounds of a randomly ringing doorbell as you would have less than six months ago, now you’d hear this: one of us saying, “there’s one!” as we point in the direction of yet another moth floating belligerently about in a marked and posted no-fly zone. Then you’d see us silently deciding whose turn it is to administer the “Clap of Death,” as we affectionately call it here. Sometimes we just sigh and shrug to each other, morally and emotionally defeated against them, and we go back to whatever we were doing. Other times one or both of us will get up and chase the son-of-a-bitch, clapping on average four times before literally getting the pleasure of moth death on our hands and emitting a satisfied, “HA!” An equal number of times, the moths disappear, blending into the furniture or holding their breath and not stirring while we wander like lost souls around the room shaking objects, trying to smoke them out.

I have no doubt that we only have a few weeks left before we will be answering to them.

This is a plea. Send help. Please. Send he